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Guests Posted Today, 07:54 AM I just want to let this out and have it stops bothering me. And sorry for poor grammar and unorganized thoughts. I will start off with how I met this close friend of mine. We met each other for quick a long time now. When we first met, I remembered him telling me that he had a crush on me. But because I had some family and relationship issues back then, I ended up rejecting him. Coincidence or fate, I don't know - we met again randomly in the street. From then, we talked again and became really good friend. Over the years, he has a few girls in and out of his life. It is the same for me. We know our borderline and never consider each other as best friends; we are friends that are just there for each other when we have serious problems in our life.
But until lately, he told me that he, along with his family, is moving the country in 6 months and possibly will not come back for quite a long period of time. He told me that he has always like me from the beginning. He does not hope that I can accept him in my life, he only requested that he can see me more often and spend more time with me.
I was mad and speechless. I am mad because he plans for the departure for two years and is hiding it from me. And I am not sure how to response to his request. I am sure I will miss him as a friend. I get very use him being there for me when I need something. I would love spending more time with him if I don't have a boyfriend. But I do. I don't want to lie to my boyfriend either and sneaking behind him and spend time with my guy friend. At the same time - I don't want to totally ignore him because I know I will regret later if I choose to not talking to him or even see him now. How should I respond to this situation?
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