Guests Posted Today, 10:35 AM theres this work meeting coming up, and i dont really want to go. im not going to get in trouble if i dont come. i have something more important to do. what should i say to the person who will meet me? i dont want to come1!! should i say im busy with class or something? should i go at all. help!! 
Guests Posted 21 January 2013 - 06:08 AM what do you get when a girl who only knows how to be happy meets a guy who's anti-social and they want each other to like them, because maybe they secretly both like each other. my friend says a good story idea. but its not a story, its real life. and what's happening is that both of them wont give in. the guy is a tad manipulative but that's how he always is, and once you see past it, its not that big a deal. besides, how do we know if anyone is lying when they say nice things and behave chivalrous? and what girl doesn't like surprising compliments? oh he knows how to be flattering, and is really good at getting people to open up to him, not just females. but like mentioned before, he's a bit on the anti-social side, his behavior can be erratic, its like he doesn't understand what kind of behavior is appropriate in which social situations. and after you've done just about everything lovers would do, and you think he wants to be with you, he can walk away just like that. for no reason too! and have the heart to tell you that he doesnt want to see you again. the girl is just as bad, i guess. i wouldn't know. but i could see how some boys would find it hard to be with her. people say shes way too happy. i personally dont think its a bad thing, she has a lot of friends. guy friends, girl friends, everybody loves being around her. and many guys tried to get with her, but later just gave up even though she never rejects them. best thing about her is that all that popularity doesnt affect her one bit, shes still the same, happy, caring, friendly girl she always was. its like she only feels one emotion; happiness. she knows how to have fun, and she'll even act a fool and act stupid just because its funny. and because of that, its probably why she doesnt like to talk about emotions and feelings. in fact, she never does. even if she feels down or blue once in a while, she'll never show it. once you start talking to her about feelings, and boys, and love and all that stuff, she'll want to change the subject to something... less serious. so i can understand why boys find it hard to get with her. that's probably why shes never been in a relationship. boys say all the time "oh shes more of friend-type of girl". well, it doesnt look like it bothers her one bit anyway.
so here's the dilemma. the anti-social boy likes her, probably because.. well, shes not bad looking. but thats probably the only reason. and he's been spending a great deal of time with her, more than he's ever spent with anyone else, i think he's trying to comprise her. it's hard to catch, but you can tell sometimes, its always personal questions hidden inside casual small talk. he got her to talk about the first guy she's ever liked, how she feels about boys who like her. but of course she doesnt really like to talk about herself, so she tries to change the subject to more, again, less serious things that are less personal. but he always manages to shift the discussion back to her. that's just how he is, i guess he likes to learn about people. but one line she will never cross is her feelings for him. he's tried several times to get her to confess her feelings. but thats not who she is, she never expresses her feelings, if she had any. so she pretends he's just another friend, another character, to her nobody is real, nothing is real, at least not real enough for it to matter. dont get me wrong, shes caring for her friends, but she never get upset or sad because of them. and for that reason, the boy, he feels as though he's not important to her. and that makes him want her more. and for some reason, she wants to talk to him, and she lures him to talk to her. and when she sees him talking to other girls, she forces herself into the conversation. could she finally be showing feelings?
i dont know, i guess this is pretty pointless to the people who arent involved. but i really feel like this is like a clash of the titans sort of thing. do you guys feel like there's any way these two can be together? i mean, given the profile description of both of them?
I hate dancing. I'm not good at, and it is an actvity which do not speak to me. I'm not even that big of a fan of music. Honestly.
He tried to get me to dance with him and I hated every moment of it; He would force me on the dance floor. When I asked him why he does not respect my likes and dislikes, he asked me why I did not love him enough to enjoy what he loves. It was unfair of him in my mind. For he does not care about school, but I am going for a doctorate degree in education. He used to RANT about how corrupt education system brick and mortar where and how that created robots and not creative free thinking people. I was a teacher when we met, for God's sake. I put up with his ranting and raving as long as he doesn't try to force me ... but in the end he did, and I just walked from this guy. You are probably better than the guy I used to date. For some reason, attracts a bookworm myself artistically. I used to date is also a poet. That did not work either. "No."
If he really does not want to dance, you should respect his likes and dislikes. If you can't, and it bothers you, you either need to make peace with it or ... b. choose to walk away from this relationship. The last option is extreme, but some people have a passion for what they want ... but you have to respect that other people want. I'm sorry, there is no easy way to deal with your problems. Edited by iampheng, 19 January 2013-04: 38 AM.
Guests posted January 21, 2013-11: 27 PMHi, my boyfriend is 29 years old and he still plays toys ... something. His birthday is coming. He always asks me to buy legos for him, but I do not want to because I think it is inappropriate for her age (and they are expensive, lol). Recently, it was a toy sales in a store, and I found a nice toy for him. The price was decent, and adults can play with it. But I have a problem with him is 29 and still play toys. He is still a child at heart, or whatever. I should buy him this toy or get him something useful as clothes. What do you think? He likes to play video games, and you know ...Explore kids toys. He still think that some toys are "fascinating". should I buy a toy? Or buy something useful for him.
alexann, on 25 January 2013 - 02:37 PM, said:
Is better to take chances and fail then not taking chances but regret later, because if you don't, you will only go around and question yourself with "what if" Ohh dear, don't ever push yourself down, you are good enough. Don't ever think that ohh he is rich he is smart he is better then me, no no never put yourself down like that. You are who you are and getting a bachelor degree while you have to take care of your brother is more than good enough. a lot of people drop out from school after high school, so having a bachelor degree is good my dear. And you feel bad because you are poor and he rich, why should you bother? is not a sin to be "poor" or poorer than those wealthy people. You should be thankful and proud of what you got and what you have worked for. And so if you don't go around with those nice clothes with brands? the pants is still the same even if you buy a guest jeans or a jeans from H&M. If they look down on you because of that then screw them they aren't worth your time. And for your brother if they start to look down on him then they are just arrogant and idiots. I believe that evil people will have to pay a price for what they have done to others. I know if you say yes it will be a though time for you, but don't ever ever think that it is your fault, because you are not good enough you are poor and that is the reason you can't be with him. think of yourself as hard working unique and an awesome person, and you are absoluttly worth to be with. Edited by Vi Linh, Today, 03:15 PM.
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