I hate dancing. I'm not good at, and it is an actvity which do not speak to me. I'm not even that big of a fan of music. Honestly.
He tried to get me to dance with him and I hated every moment of it; He would force me on the dance floor. When I asked him why he does not respect my likes and dislikes, he asked me why I did not love him enough to enjoy what he loves. It was unfair of him in my mind. For he does not care about school, but I am going for a doctorate degree in education. He used to RANT about how corrupt education system brick and mortar where and how that created robots and not creative free thinking people. I was a teacher when we met, for God's sake. I put up with his ranting and raving as long as he doesn't try to force me ... but in the end he did, and I just walked from this guy. You are probably better than the guy I used to date. For some reason, attracts a bookworm myself artistically. I used to date is also a poet. That did not work either. "No."
If he really does not want to dance, you should respect his likes and dislikes. If you can't, and it bothers you, you either need to make peace with it or ... b. choose to walk away from this relationship. The last option is extreme, but some people have a passion for what they want ... but you have to respect that other people want. I'm sorry, there is no easy way to deal with your problems. Edited by iampheng, 19 January 2013-04: 38 AM.
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