I feel so lazy to go back to school

SomeAsianDude said on 19 January 2013-04: 09 AM:

You should consider whether or go back to school is not even worth the time and effort. Sometimes it's better to just concentrate on work and build experience from that than to waste potential years in college only to get a Bachelor's degree, which in all honesty doesn't mean much when it comes to getting a decent job any longer. It has become the norm today so if you really want to stand out from the other, you would need to get at least a master's degree, which would take even more time and money. There are many things to consider, not all of them clear. Make sure to think about it.

Get Anotherbachelor's degree solve little. Get your foot in the door of a field are you interested will ... even if you have to work from the bottom, the volunteer regardless.

If you are a natural and good for your chosen area of work yet ... open a degree in the field, only the first door.
I know friends in the Bank which has nutrition and Food Sciences, Psych degrees ... Yes, I kid you not. And they make Bank? Yes. One went all the way to the Bank ... it's more PR, which is very opportuntistic and pushy sales more than statements and figures for her, and she is good at smoozing and networking his way.

Social work, in the end, aboutPR, networking and sales ... because you have to your clients numbers work to justify State funding and to keep the applications running. There are people with a master's degree in anthropology ... in fashion (serious) and lifestyles.

And sometimes (depending on the job and what advancement opportunities, your manager, your peers, etc.)-even as commanders in some cases can work against you. You may be overqualified, or hot = even as early as the interview level. And forget about entry-level job-they are usually closed to you.

If it is a very specialist-pharmacy, architecture, etc. which you are interested ... don't bother.

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Girl with fierce look

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devilgenemugen, on 18 January 2013 - 05:21 AM, said:

lol yeah but

since it is not a fierce look, what is the word of their expression?

IT'S CALLED..NORMAL...

What if a person you don't know smiles at ya..
and you're not in the mood?
Or maybe that person was distracted..

People have moods pal...
you don't always get the kind of response
that you would like from a chick.
I'm a girl myself, and I would appreciate it
if a guy smiles at me

because ..

he's interested TO KNOW me...and
Not trying to make a fool of himself by
acting like..he's the last man standing on earth?!

Understood?

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Sweet talks to dirty talks ... Why?

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thai massage girl loves me ?

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Guests Posted 17 January 2013 - 09:26 PM

On a recent Thailand holiday I met an Isaan Thai massage girl /prostitute in a shop (two kids at home in Isaan province). I was looking for company so sweet talked her in the shop and she agreed to come stay with me for three days - no charge.
Throughout those 72 hours, she constantly says she loves me, showered me with affection, constantly staring into my eyes, kissing etc. She cried numerous times at the thought of me leaving. Tears streaming down her face. Genuine or not ? I can't work this out. Maybe a mix of both.
To me it seemed genuine, but then I know I am emotionally gullible and often naieve.
She admitted she needs money but never actually asked for anything and seemed only content with my company. The attention she gave me was FULLY intense for those days.
Was any of this for real, or was she simply fishing for a husband or a ticket out of her current life. Is her behaviour common ?
Also, how could she 'love me' after only knowing me for a matter of hours ? I know from past experience I am attractive to asian women but whether any of this was real - I don't know and am confused.

Is this sort of scenario one used by many Thai bar/massage girls to try and hook a husband and long term prospect ?

I feel pretty messed up now. Am I being stupid ?

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Sweet talks to dirty talks... Why?

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how to melt a girl's heart

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When my boyfriend is good with my family, like he does things to assist them and do things for them, I am really touched.

Or when my boyfriend springs up surprises, like a trip down to see me, or drives me to work, I get really touched.

It's not really about the presents or the gifts or the money he has (frankly he has none...at least not yet), but the effort he puts in that touches me the most.

Although truthfully, all the effort he puts in has a bit of money factor in it, like gas costs money and stuff.

But you can always do things for her like cook for her, clean up her room/house, fix things for her, make yourself useful, etc., that are priceless yet free.

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Facebook envy leaves people lonely and frustrated

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Facebook envy leaves people lonely and frustrated

Witnessing friends' vacations, love lives and work successes on Facebook can cause envy and trigger feelings of misery and loneliness, according to German researchers.

"We were surprised by how many people have a negative experience from Facebook with envy leaving them feeling lonely, frustrated or angry,"

They found people aged in their mid-30s were most likely to envy family happiness while women were more likely to envy physical attractiveness.

These feelings of envy were found to prompt some users to boast more about their achievements on the site run by Facebook Inc. to portray themselves in a better light.

Men were shown to post more self-promotional content on Facebook to let people know about their accomplishments while women stressed their good looks and social lives.

The researchers based their findings on two studies involving 600 people with the results to be presented at a conference on information systems in Germany in February.

"From a provider's perspective, our findings signal that users frequently perceive Facebook as a stressful environment, which may, in the long-run, endanger platform sustainability," the researchers concluded.

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Should I buy a toy for my bf bday?

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Hello, my boyfriend is 29 years old, and he still enjoys playing toys..somewhat. His birthday is coming up. He always asks me to buy legos for him, but I don't want to because I think it's inappropriate for his age (and they're expensive lol). Recently, there was a toy sale at a store, and I found a nice toy for him. The price was decent, and adults can play with it. However, I do have a problem with him being 29 and still play toys. he's still a child at heart or whatever. Should I buy him this toy or get him something useful like clothes. What do you think? He likes to play video games and you know..exploring kids toys. He still find some toys "fascinating". should I buy the toy? Or buy something useful for him.

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Saying no to jobs so that I can stay with family

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Posted 17 January 2013 - 11:36 AM

winnie, on 17 January 2013 - 07:54 AM, said:

Few years ago I moved to another country for a job. It was a big thing cuz I couldn't find any jobs in my hometown. This place had plenty of career possibilities and it was easy to change jobs.
At first it was great but I had no family or friends there. The culture shock, stress at work, different system, low infrastructure standards and services, stress outside, stress living with strangers, loneliness, homesickness etc. eventually got to me and I decided to move home. It was a disaster and I'm not a strong person like other guys who can live alone in a foreign country. How old were you when you got that first job abroad? 22? My cousin didn’t know a Japanese word when he was 22. He even didn’t travel by plane one time before he got his export labor contract in Japan. No friend, no family, unfamiliar with food, cultures, languages, people... everything new there. But now, he’s been working in Japan for 4 years, earning much money and even sending it to support his family. My aunt tells me he has no intent to return yet, and he may marry a Japanese girl and settle down for good then.

The matter is not whether you’re a strong guy to live alone and adapt yourself to new environments in a completely new place where you never set foot before, but whether or not you want to take risk and accept a challenge to strive for a brighter future.

winnie, on 17 January 2013 - 07:54 AM, said:

So I'm back where I started. Hard to find good jobs in my hometown but at least I have my family. Just remember that your family won’t live with you forever. Your siblings will have their own family and your parents will be gone (sorry, I don’t mean to say that), and you’ll be alone again. What will you do then? winnie, on 17 January 2013 - 07:54 AM, said:

I still apply and get offered great jobs, but they are in other countries so I turn them down.
Am I doing the right thing?No one will have the right to judge what you’ve done is right or wrong, but yourself. If you’re really happy with what you’ve got: doing chores, living with family, fearing to take risk at a new adventure life in a faraway area... then it’s ok, don’t look back at any decision you’ve made before and never regret or live in regret from now on. At least, you’ll be responsible for your own choice. No one will be blamed for that.

But now if we advise you to take that chance again in a place where you’re lonely and isolated, what's gonna happen to you may be more terrible than your first job experience oversea when you’re not self-motivated or enthusiastic enough to expose yourself to this venture. Another failure is imminent for sure. More terribly, no one can do anything to fix a wrong option you make because of strangers' advices... Edited by KittyLam, 17 January 2013 - 11:40 AM.

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Gym blahs anyone? What did you do today on gym?

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LoveIi, on 24 January 2013 - 11:28 PM, said:

Haha I did! And I left the gym like 20 mins after cause I was so hungry! I usually go to the gym at 5pm, after work, so I'm always stuffed with food from lunch.

Well done!!! p@rty, on 25 January 2013 - 02:20 AM, said:

I slipped to my plan to take it easy. I went at dance school and promised to myself I take just one class. Then I had to stay on another class and then another because I could not stop dancing.. And I stayed 4 classes and then they threw me out because they were closing They should keep it open of whole night Edited by SnowQueenOfDarkness, Today, 07:00 AM.

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I don't know what do if this career doesn't go the way I want?

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You should take a deep breath and relax, you are lucky to have such good choices and options in life. Be thankful you can choose what you want to do. There is no pressure,,,,,,, think it through and you will make the right decision for YOU

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On Valentines night day 2013-what are your plans?<3></3>

Posted January 21, 2013-08: 19 PM

Spoiler mlint007, 21 January 2013-12: 36 PM said:

So I understood the relationship with Alexann?? and I went to your wall and now I understand. LOL please don't compare my situation to the situation you guys have going on ... anyway, I would never fight over a man and my husband knows better to have me fighting his battles; never fight over a man who is what we call "Bird" behavior from these parts. A real man does not have you guys in this situation but I'm just an observer looking from out. I do not know you, but I am sure you are a wonderful, beautiful girl who deserves someone who will love her the same way. Anyway, good luck with that.

LOL which is a joke mlint, absolutely nothing happens ... There is no such situation and I wish that she would understand it as well. No, there is nothing in common with your case and our futile fight over nothing. But I understand her because jealousity make us do odd things ... Actually the first time I saw I was jealous of him was the moment I realized I really connected to him. And there are all kinds of jealousity, even children are jealous when younger siblings appear. She is now jealous that her feelings for him are true. If I am a threat to her and her happiness, I made, lol if she would see me she would know, there is no danger ... What can I do more than turn it into humour when reason does not help? Yes, it seems both obsessionally I after him, if there is a key to their success is the way they scroll ... Maybe it makes them closer to where they have to be afraid of me. And if he still has his girlfriend real life, don't you think she would be a greater threat to their luck than me? Good luck with them is absolutely essential, thank you very much, but at least someone here is full of himself thinking that everyting what I say about him ... So I grant his request by saying, "come, come, why you are not already here? If you are not here then shut up. But no, the boys want all the attention what they ever be able to win some guys are contests of many internet lover, if he reckons I all user names, I make only about 10 already and more coming! The copy post what they are getting, and then praise themselves for getting so much attention.

Yes, I deserve someone who gives me so much than I give to him. A mine today is learning to free his thoughts. He fits well with me because he of course and texts all the time. Not much to learn, lol, and by teaching the result is just a fake person who tries to be something he is not. I told him at the beginning what are my rules and if he does not like them, don't even try. That love is more important than the profession, etc. Some may dazing good at spelling, but if there is any truth in it, it's just a sweet fairytale into dreamland.

mlint007 said on January 21, 2013-12: 36 AM:

Remember what I said in Random thoughts? It is still here. You have to teach people to treat you, and I had to do it with him.
I still make mistakes with him. I hurt him because I always run this there but I had to let him know if I my
career and trying to save the world, he that has my heart.

The greatest thing in life is to find someone who knows all your mistakes and differences and still finds you absolutely amazing.

Yes, it is good to find someone who loves us as we are when he let you hurt him and still loves you -This is love!!!

Except I think non-damaging relationships.

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Do you study in your room or library?

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 09:42 PM

Heey you! don't be piss, B and B+ is nice already, if i only got B and B+ i would have become soooo happy

ohh yeah andswer the question, library, because I always have friends I can study with, so I do it better at the library Edited by Vi Linh, Yesterday, 10:22 AM.

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Would you marry him/her if you would know he/she is dying?

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Posted 20 January 2013 - 12:42 PM

Yes. Life is too short anyway. Theres no telling that a healthy person will be with you longer than a dying person. Cos you don't know what the future holds! I mean and for example *touch wood* he could just walk out now and gets stabbed to death.

I rather spend time with the one I love, no matter how long he has, and when hes gone, the sweet loving precious memories will forever remain in my heart

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I feel so lazy to go back to school

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SomeAsianDude, on 19 January 2013 - 04:09 AM, said:

You should consider whether or not going back to school is even worth the time and effort. Sometimes it is better to just concentrate on working and building experience from that than to waste potential years in college just to get a bachelor degree which in all honesty doesn't mean much in terms of getting a decent job anymore. It has become the norm nowadays so if you really want to stand out from others, you would need to get atleast a master degree, which would cost you even more time and money. So there's many things to consider, not all of them very clear. Make sure to think about it.

Getting anotherBachelor's degree won't solve much. Getting your foot in the first door of a field you're interested in will ... even if you have to work from the bottom, volunteer whatever.

IF you're a natural and good at your chosen area of work anyway ... a degree in whatever field only opens the first door.
I know friends in Banking who have Nutrition and Food Sciences, Psych degrees .... yes I kid you not. And they doing banking? Yes. One even went up all the way to Corporate banking .... it's more PR, being very opportuntistic and pushy sales more than accounting and figures for her, and she's great at smoozing and networking her way.

Even Social Work i ultimately aboutPR, networking and sales .... because you have to make your clients numbers work to justify government funding and to keep programs running. There are people with Masters in Anthropology ... in Fashion (serious) and Lifestyles jobs.

And sometimes (dependent on job and what advancement opportunities, your boss, your colleagues etc) - having that Masters in some cases can work against you. You can be seen over-qualified, or a threat = even already at interview level. And forget the entry level jobs - they're mostly closed to you.

Unless it's a field very specialised - Pharmacy, Architecture etc that you're interested in ... don't bother.

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Are Human Mating Preferences with Respect to Height Reflected in Actual Pairings?

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Pair formation, acquiring a mate to form a reproductive unit, is a complex process. Mating preferences are a step in this process. However, due to constraining factors such as availability of mates, rival competition, and mutual mate choice, preferred characteristics may not be realised in the actual partner. People value height in their partner and we investigated to what extent preferences for height are realised in actual couples.

In general, women prefer men taller than themselves and, conversely, men prefer women shorter than themselves. Gillis and Avis (1980) found that in only 1 out of 720 US/UK couples, the female was taller. Not only do men and women prefer the male to be taller than the woman in a romantic couple, they also prefer the male not to be too tall relative to the woman. In a sample of undergraduates selecting dates, the largest reported acceptable height difference for both sexes was the male being 17% taller than the female

For the analyses presented here, we included all heterosexual parents for which both heights were available (12,502 cases). Women were on average 163.75±6.97 (mean ± standard deviation) and men 177.86±7.42 centimetres tall. The average Parental Height Difference was 14.11±9.25 centimetres. Because height is related to ethnicity, and there is strong assortative mating for ethnicity we re-analyzed our data restricting our sample to Caucasian parents (N = 10,664). This led to very similar results (results not reported).

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Is that true for you? Edited by SnowQueenOfDarkness, 21 January 2013 - 10:36 PM.

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Saying no to jobs so that I can stay with family

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Posted 17 January 2013 - 11:36 AM

winnie, on 17 January 2013 - 07:54 AM, said:

Few years ago I moved to another country for a job. It was a big thing cuz I couldn't find any jobs in my hometown. This place had plenty of career possibilities and it was easy to change jobs.
At first it was great but I had no family or friends there. The culture shock, stress at work, different system, low infrastructure standards and services, stress outside, stress living with strangers, loneliness, homesickness etc. eventually got to me and I decided to move home. It was a disaster and I'm not a strong person like other guys who can live alone in a foreign country. How old were you when you got that first job abroad? 22? My cousin didn’t know a Japanese word when he was 22. He even didn’t travel by plane one time before he got his export labor contract in Japan. No friend, no family, unfamiliar with food, cultures, languages, people... everything new there. But now, he’s been working in Japan for 4 years, earning much money and even sending it to support his family. My aunt tells me he has no intent to return yet, and he may marry a Japanese girl and settle down for good then.

The matter is not whether you’re a strong guy to live alone and adapt yourself to new environments in a completely new place where you never set foot before, but whether or not you want to take risk and accept a challenge to strive for a brighter future.

winnie, on 17 January 2013 - 07:54 AM, said:

So I'm back where I started. Hard to find good jobs in my hometown but at least I have my family. Just remember that your family won’t live with you forever. Your siblings will have their own family and your parents will be gone (sorry, I don’t mean to say that), and you’ll be alone again. What will you do then? winnie, on 17 January 2013 - 07:54 AM, said:

I still apply and get offered great jobs, but they are in other countries so I turn them down.
Am I doing the right thing?No one will have the right to judge what you’ve done is right or wrong, but yourself. If you’re really happy with what you’ve got: doing chores, living with family, fearing to take risk at a new adventure life in a faraway area... then it’s ok, don’t look back at any decision you’ve made before and never regret or live in regret from now on. At least, you’ll be responsible for your own choice. No one will be blamed for that.

But now if we advise you to take that chance again in a place where you’re lonely and isolated, what's gonna happen to you may be more terrible than your first job experience oversea when you’re not self-motivated or enthusiastic enough to expose yourself to this venture. Another failure is imminent for sure. More terribly, no one can do anything to fix a wrong option you make because of strangers' advices... Edited by KittyLam, 17 January 2013 - 11:40 AM.

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Valentines day 2013 - what are your plans? <3

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Posted 21 January 2013 - 08:19 AM

Spoiler mlint007, on 21 January 2013 - 12:36 AM, said:

So I didn't understand the connection with Alexann?? and I went to your wall and now I understand. LOL Please don't compare my situation to that situation you guys have going on....anyway, I would never fight over a man and my man know better to have me fighting his battles; never fight over a man that is what we call "Bird" behavior from these parts. A real man wouldn't have you guys in that situation but I'm just an observer looking in from the out. I don't know you but I'm sure you are a gorgeous, beautiful girl who deserves someone who would love her the same way. Anyways, good luck with that.

LOL that is totally a joke mlint, absolutely NOTHING is going on... There is no situation and I wish she would understand that too. No, there is nothing common with your case and our useless fighting over nothing. But I understand her because jealousity make us do odd things... Actually first time I saw I was jealous over him was the moment I understood I really am attached to him. And there is all kind of jealousity, also kids are jealous when younger siblings pops up. She is jealous now so her feelings to him are true. If I am a threat to her and her happiness I am taken, lol If she would see me she would know there is no danger... What can I do more than turn it to humour when sense does not help? Yes, they both obsessionally think I am after him, if that is a key of their happiness that is the way they roll... Maybe it makes them closer when they have to be afraid because of me. And if he still has his real life girlfriend, don't you think she would be a bigger threat for her happiness than me? Good luck with them is totally needed, thank you very much But at least someone here is full of himself to think that everyting what I say is about him... So I grant his wishes by saying come, come, why you are not already in here? If you are not here then shut up. But no, boys want all the attention what they ever are able to gain Some guys has competitions of number of internet lovers, if he counts my all usernames, I only make about 10 already and more is coming! They copy posts what they get and then praise themselves for gaining so much attention.

Yes I deserve someone who gives me as much than I give for him. An my date is learning to free his thoughts. He fits well with me because he naturally calls and texts all the time. Not much to teach, lol And via teaching result is only a fake person who tries to act something what he is not. I told him at beginning what are my rules and if he does not like them, there is no even need to try. Way of love is more important than occupation etc. Some might be dazing good at spelling but when there is no truth inside of it, it is just a sweet fairytale in dreamland.

mlint007, on 21 January 2013 - 12:36 AM, said:

Remember what I said in Random Thoughts? It still applies here. You have to teach people how to treat you and I had to do that with him.
I still make mistakes with him. I hurt him often because I'm always running here to there but I had to let him know even though I'm advancing my
career and trying to save the world he is the one who has my heart.

The greatest thing in life is finding someone who knows all your mistakes and differences and still finds you absolutely amazing.

Yes, it is great to find someone who loves us as we are When he let you to hurt him and still loves you - That is LOVE!!!

Except I believe non-hurting relationships.

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Who expects to marry a virgin?

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No never did never will ,,,,,, its the 21st century who cares,,,,, as long as she was not a hooker in her past life i could give a sh*t. We all have a past some more colorful than others. If her heart is in the right place the sex and fun will be easy Edited by mjdibatt, Yesterday, 03:57 PM.

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What kind of ghost you are when you die?

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What kind of ghost you are when you die? If you die before other people which has wrong done to you what would you do?

I am real nasty ghost, I have lot of to revenge. I would torture them as much as I can. I would hount them night and days till they could not breath and survive their life without medication. They would just shake and listen my ghosty voice about what they did to me.

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easier to cook american food? comparing asian food

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merican Chocolate Cake recipe:

Ingredients

1 (18.25 ounce) package devil's food cake mix

3 eggs

1/2 cup butter

1 cup semisweet chocolate chips

1 cup chopped pecans

4 cups confectioners' sugar

1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese

Compared with this recipe:

Ingredients

For the cake

225g/8oz plain flour

350g/12½oz caster sugar

85g/3oz cocoa powder

1½ tsp baking powder

1½ tsp bicarbonate of soda

2 free-range eggs

250ml/9fl oz milk

125ml/4½fl oz vegetable oil

2 tsp vanilla extract

250ml/9fl oz boiling water

For the chocolate icing

200g/7oz plain chocolate

200ml/7fl oz double cream

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Are Human Mating Preferences with Respect to Height Reflected in Actual Pairings?

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Pair formation, acquiring a mate to form a reproductive unit, is a complex process. Mating preferences are a step in this process. However, due to constraining factors such as availability of mates, rival competition, and mutual mate choice, preferred characteristics may not be realised in the actual partner. People value height in their partner and we investigated to what extent preferences for height are realised in actual couples.

In general, women prefer men taller than themselves and, conversely, men prefer women shorter than themselves. Gillis and Avis (1980) found that in only 1 out of 720 US/UK couples, the female was taller. Not only do men and women prefer the male to be taller than the woman in a romantic couple, they also prefer the male not to be too tall relative to the woman. In a sample of undergraduates selecting dates, the largest reported acceptable height difference for both sexes was the male being 17% taller than the female

For the analyses presented here, we included all heterosexual parents for which both heights were available (12,502 cases). Women were on average 163.75±6.97 (mean ± standard deviation) and men 177.86±7.42 centimetres tall. The average Parental Height Difference was 14.11±9.25 centimetres. Because height is related to ethnicity, and there is strong assortative mating for ethnicity we re-analyzed our data restricting our sample to Caucasian parents (N = 10,664). This led to very similar results (results not reported).

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dont want to go to a work meeting, what should i say?

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theres this work meeting coming up, and i dont really want to go. im not going to get in trouble if i dont come. i have something more important to do. what should i say to the person who will meet me? i dont want to come1!! should i say im busy with class or something? should i go at all. help!!

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Sweet talks to dirty talks... Why?

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Learning Mandarin in Shanghai

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Anyone know who this model/chick is?

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I'm dying inside just to know who this chick is. Not sure if I am in the right section (dont feel like signing up).

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dont want to go to a work meeting, what should i say?

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theres this work meeting coming up, and i dont really want to go. im not going to get in trouble if i dont come. i have something more important to do. what should i say to the person who will meet me? i dont want to come1!! should i say im busy with class or something? should i go at all. help!!

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Should I buy a toy for my bf bday?

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Guests Posted 21 January 2013 - 11:27 PM

Hello, my boyfriend is 29 years old, and he still enjoys playing toys..somewhat. His birthday is coming up. He always asks me to buy legos for him, but I don't want to because I think it's inappropriate for his age (and they're expensive lol). Recently, there was a toy sale at a store, and I found a nice toy for him. The price was decent, and adults can play with it. However, I do have a problem with him being 29 and still play toys. he's still a child at heart or whatever. Should I buy him this toy or get him something useful like clothes. What do you think? He likes to play video games and you know..exploring kids toys. He still find some toys "fascinating". should I buy the toy? Or buy something useful for him.

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People usage vs loving

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This is very interesting dilemma and inspired by earlier how to make "friends" thread ( http://asianfanatics.net/forum/topic/546663-guide-on-how-to-make-friends/) . When I read that thread I was thinking that is same type of people using than what we are facing when we are looking for love...

Same thing is so different depend of what is our watcher view of it. Person on that thread defined friends as people who are available to use but friendship to me is not using.

Is it same with "love" ? "Friendship" -theory fits one to one to this love and "love" dilemma too... How to learn to sense the truth? How to learn to read a game behind sweet talks? It is counted of how much you are getting back? Getting back what? The truth? The lie? Something? Not enough? Too much?

I was thinking on that "friend" thread that what that person describes is what enemies does for each others.. It is same with love.. How a person can make himself or herself to believe that is words or actions of love when those are actually words and actions what should only do for the worst enemies...

How long it takes to wash all conscience away? That after washing it away you truly keep yourself as best and most loving and pure person in a world?

And like all that destroying people in the name of a "friendship".. This destroying is the name of "love".

Loving, loving... Using.. Loving.. Using.. Loving... Is there a difference of using and love to you? Or is it all same?

Does love mean anything to you? Do you know what love truly is? Can you identify it as an emotion? Can you feel it at all? How less people is in this world anymore who knows what love is? How to love? What do you think of yourself? Do you only know how to gain it? Or do you also know how to give it? (= no sex but L O V E)

Of course it is different to different people but using is using and not loving in any circumstances. Edited by SnowQueenOfDarkness, 23 January 2013 - 09:57 AM.

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Do you want your wife/husband to look of yourself?

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Posted 20 January 2013 - 12:32 PM

Posted 20 January 2013 - 12:38 PM

How touching

Posted 20 January 2013 - 12:45 PM

LOL I kinda believe that couples do end up looking alike. Maybe cos they have so much in common/interests.

Posted 20 January 2013 - 01:22 PM

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WilIiam, on 20 January 2013 - 12:38 PM, said:

How touching

Does your wife looks like you?
Edited by snoweye, 20 January 2013 - 01:23 PM.

Posted 20 January 2013 - 01:32 PM

snoweye, on 20 January 2013 - 01:22 PM, said:

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Does your wife looks like you?

Nope

Posted 21 January 2013 - 12:17 AM

I hear its because people start developing/mimicing one another's habits and mannerisms is why people think they look alike. I don't want my spouse to look like me.

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I think I still like him

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Okay today me, my best friend, her boyfriend and my ex boyfriend went to the beach. I knew it would be awkward but I still went cos my ex didn't mind so I didn't mind too. I've realized I actually still like him but I don't know about him. My friend left me and him alone a few times and it got quite awkward like we didn't have anything to talk about until we went to the sensory maze in the dark my friend and her boyfriend left me and him and were kinda lost and we were like close to each other. It may seemed like an very awkward day but I was really happy, When I was leaving to go home we said our goodbyes and I was really sad were I left I have no idea of what to do. (We broke up cos we never got to see each and he was like its not working out but I still liked him at that time which was around 3-4months ago)

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I don't know what do if this career doesn't go the way I want?

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Posted Yesterday, 02:59 PM

You should take a deep breath and relax, you are lucky to have such good choices and options in life. Be thankful you can choose what you want to do. There is no pressure,,,,,,, think it through and you will make the right decision for YOU

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